Every situation is different, but what I learned from my own aging loved ones is to live in the moment. Laugh at all of the jokes as if it is the first time to hear them. Time is priceless and love is eternal.
I am very sure that your visits mean the world to her. If it is comfortable to her, don’t hesitate to touch — a hand and maybe a forearm. And remind her that you think about her — lots, and do so. Your relationship with Bebe will change, but her spirit will remain there to be discovered and cherished.
I’ve not been in your situation with Bebe. So I don’t know how practical my suggestions might be. But if she enjoys putting jigsaw puzzles together, I suggest you start there. Also encourage her to take part in activities that the facility offers. Good luck!
It helps my mother in law. She has early stage dementia but still lives in her own. Studies have indicated that working puzzles keeps the brain working.
Hi Zach, first you are a great grandson. I am 74 and had to go thru this many times with my older relatives. Nursing home facilities suck. I vowed 20 years ago to do something before I ended up there. Well the 20 years have passed and nothing has changed. More money needs to allocated for in home care as that is the best. Good luck and keep visiting her when you can. Also, ask and record her oral history. Now is the time and she may enjoy it.
A touching story, Zach. Well done. Your empathy serves as a role model.
Every situation is different, but what I learned from my own aging loved ones is to live in the moment. Laugh at all of the jokes as if it is the first time to hear them. Time is priceless and love is eternal.
I am very sure that your visits mean the world to her. If it is comfortable to her, don’t hesitate to touch — a hand and maybe a forearm. And remind her that you think about her — lots, and do so. Your relationship with Bebe will change, but her spirit will remain there to be discovered and cherished.
I’ve not been in your situation with Bebe. So I don’t know how practical my suggestions might be. But if she enjoys putting jigsaw puzzles together, I suggest you start there. Also encourage her to take part in activities that the facility offers. Good luck!
I appreciate your advice, Ms. Harwell. Games and puzzles are always fun.
It helps my mother in law. She has early stage dementia but still lives in her own. Studies have indicated that working puzzles keeps the brain working.
Hi Zach, first you are a great grandson. I am 74 and had to go thru this many times with my older relatives. Nursing home facilities suck. I vowed 20 years ago to do something before I ended up there. Well the 20 years have passed and nothing has changed. More money needs to allocated for in home care as that is the best. Good luck and keep visiting her when you can. Also, ask and record her oral history. Now is the time and she may enjoy it.